“Now go on and enjoy yourself, dance to your heart's content and
win the Prince's heart. But remember, you have to be back before the
clock strikes twelve at midnight.”
We all are familiar with the words
of the Fairy God Mother in the evergreen fairy tale ‘Cinderella'. It's
these words that probably made us aware-for the first time in our lives-of
the value of time. We all sympathized
with Cinderella
when all her splendid gown and other finery turned to rags at the stroke
of midnight. Our first acquaintance with the villainous Time!
But then, is
time such a villain, who should always be painted in black?
We have heard the proverb that says “there are no wounds that time
cannot heal.”
Here of course we get the image of a wizened old woman who comes hobbling
up to us with a pitcher full of balm and gentle fingers that soothe away
all our
pains and sorrows.
But that's enough! This book was not written to eulogize
time. There is no need of the romance of Cinderella or the soothing finger
of an old lady
when we are talking about time. And do you know why? It's because we
do not have the time for it.
We are going to try and understand time in
its many faces. No, I was not referring to the faces of watches or
clocks. I was referring to the
many
meanings that
time has. Oh yes it does! You thought that time meant the same to everyone.
Well think again; or maybe you could try to explain the logic behind
the following cases.
Picture a farmer who plants a sapling of a tree that would probably
take ten to twelve years to reach the stage when it would start to
bear fruit,
by then
the farmer would in likelihood be under the soil himself.
Picture a jailbird
in bird counting on the bars of his cell waiting for the seconds, minutes,
and hours, days, weeks, months and years to go
by before
he can be free
again.
Now picture a young couple madly in love with each other cherishing
the few minutes they get to spend with each other every day, cursing
time
because it flies so
fast when they are together and never the other way round.
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So what does
time mean to you?
When was the last time that you realized the value of
time?
The answer is probably the last time you watched one of those Hollywood
thrillers in which the hero is driving a car in which a time-bomb has
been planted
and the hero is unaware of this. But we being the getting-to-see-it-all
audience watch with bated breath as the tiny needle of the timer ticks
towards the
point
at which the explosion is sure to occur.
But just before that, the hero
hits the brakes screeches to a halt to avoid hitting that old lady crossing
the road. And when he jumps out
to help
her cross the
road the needle reaches the point and the bomb is exploded. And our hero
is safe. It's funny how the hero always escapes without a scratch in
these movies.
But I expect that's why they call them heroes.
Now we are really transgressing
aren't we? So back to our subject that is Time Management.
Do you know what is interesting about the concept of Time? It is absolutely
uncontrollable.
Personally I believe that there is something very humbling
about this concept. Just imagine, man with all his power is just like
a helpless
babe before
time. There it is Time stands tall and strong before man and man remains
vulnerable
and weak before it. Man, the big strong man who tamed rivers and seas,
who reached out to the skies and beyond, who harnessed wind and water
and dug
up the bowels
of the earth is but a worm before Time.
The best he can do to win the
battle against time is die his hair and use some anti-wrinkle cream on
his face. In fact, the closest that man
has
got towards
conquering time is those many history books that have been penned; they
are of course chronicles of events that happened long ago and that is
certainly not
much to boast about.
The Subject of Time Management
And so now we come to our subject that is time management
because after all the illustrations given above, I hope that I have made
one point
clear, that
is that
Time cannot be controlled, it can only be managed. And that is what we
are going to do. We are going to learn the art of time management. I
don't want you to have an air of helplessness. You might begin to feel
that if
the battle cannot
be won, then what is point in putting up a struggle? Ah, but there you
are
missing out on a very important point. In all the illustrations that
I used above, I
was referring to man in general and not to one particular Tom, Dick or
Harry.
So you can see that this aspect of time is applicable to every
human being and there is no running away from it. Every person has only
twenty
four
hours in
a day and no force on earth can alter that. So in order to get the cutting
edge what you have to do is to be able to manage your time in the most
effective way
possible.
And that is what Time management is all about. It's about managing your
time effectively and if I may I would like to add the word efficiently
too.
Now, when we talk about our resources, every one knows that we are referring
to the resources like fossil fuels, forests, mineral wealth, and water
bodies and so on. But surprisingly time is never included in this list.
When we
talk about non-renewable resources, fossil fuels like coal, petroleum
and natural
gas top the list.
But what about time? A point that most people tend
to forget is that time is the most valuable resource that we have, and
time
once lost,
is lost for ever. We can think about alternate sources of energy for
fossil fuels like electricity, fuel cells, solar energy and the research
goes
on. But is there
any alternative for time that is lost.
Again I stress on the point that time once lost, is lost forever. And
hence we have the proverb, “time and tide waits for no man.” |